“Why do i keep hearing her words. “You made me do it.”, It’s your fault” “You are selfish” “You are so stupid.” They pain me. it is my fault. I made her do it. i am selfish. What can i do to make her happy. I can never seem to get it right. I keep trying, What am i doing wrong. I don’t know what to do. I did everything she wanted, everything… Now she is gone but she is still here. I see her everywhere, like a scar.”
Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
-Bob Marley-
In Notes:
Healthy relationships are based on communication, trust, honesty and support. You need to voice issues and find solutions together. When you point one finger, there are four pointing back at you. Sometimes we need to step back and observe our behaviour towards one another. We must understand our needs and wants affects the other. Thus sacrifice and compromise is a key ingredient to a successful relationship. It is not about me, myself and i; it is about we, us and ourselves. You cannot see yourself as one because are a two that makes up the “one” (Brought together by hormones, forced marriage, duck tape or alcohol). The left hand must know what to right hand is doing to effectively be the sword and the shield that protects your future together #teamwork…(Okay, that metaphor is cool, Admit it).
“Why are you still here…. Why do you feel so real. “
“You are tearing me apart.”
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